Learn and watch out for the warning
signs of possible suicide.
Get help for teens who need it. Many
teens who attempt suicide do not know how to reach out for help.
Keep guns out of young people’s
If you are unsure about what to do, call
the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK
(273-8255). It is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, from
anywhere in the United States.
While many teens have these emotional ups and downs, for some, the downs can be fatal. Sadly, every year in the United States, thousands of teenagers are unable to deal with these feelings and commit suicide.
Suicide is one of the 3 leading causes of death for 13- to 19-year-olds.
Many teenagers who attempt or commit suicide have serious problems:
Depression or other mood disorder
Drug or alcohol abuse
Being overly anxious
Often, these teens have had problems for some time and can be very good at hiding these problems. This is why family and friends are shocked when suicide occurs.
Getting in trouble.
Arguing with a parent, boyfriend, or girlfriend.
Receiving a bad grade on a test.
Not making the team.
Teenagers often attempt suicide within a few hours after deciding to do so.
Teenagers who try to kill themselves see it as the only way to escape their emotional pain. They want the pain and suffering to stop.
MYTH: ?If she really wanted to kill herself, she would have done something more deadly.?
In addition to talking or writing about suicide or death, some other warning signs to watch out for are:
A drop in grades, neglect of personal appearance or responsibilities, or losing interest in things that used to be fun.
Appearing sad, hopeless, bored, overwhelmed, anxious, worried, irritable, or very angry. While this may sound like many teenagers, changes that make you worried could be very serious.
Acting rebellious, aggressive, or overly impulsive; running away or withdrawing from friends or family.
Teenagers who think they may be gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender are at an especially high risk for suicide.
Some teens may become very depressed, withdraw from old friends, hang out with a different group, or want to be alone all the time. Some others may withdraw and listen to music or write. Others may stay up until the early morning and then stay in bed much of the day.
For depressed teens, drugs or alcohol can be fatal.
If you are concerned about an immediate risk of harm, take the teen to a hospital emergency room. Even if you are not sure, the hospital staff is trained to figure out if someone is serious about suicide. Talk with a doctor about treatment and an evaluation by a mental health professional.
If you notice that someone is ?in trouble? or feels very negative, listen to the whole story and try not to judge. Show that you care and are always ready to listen.
Talk with teens. This is harder than it sounds. It is important to just listen and not offer suggestions on how to ?fix? problems or seem like you are judging in some way. Ask teens what is bothering them and whether they have been feeling sad or down. Ask whether they have ever thought of suicide or not wanting to live anymore. Asking will not make someone attempt suicide?it may actually stop it.
Try to be understanding if teens are ?in trouble? or feel very badly about themselves. Let them know that whatever trouble they are in at the moment, you have faith in who they are and their future.
Teenagers questioning their sexual identity are at an especially high risk for suicide. Listen, be supportive, and get them help. Every teenager needs to know that life is better than death.
If you know of a teen
struggling with this and fear there is a risk for suicide, there are local,
state, and national resources that can provide information and advice.
Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG), at 202/467-8180
Talk with teens and let them know that if any of their friends talk about suicide, they need to get help from an adult right away! This may be a matter of life and death and is too much for even a close friend to handle alone. Let them know that even if they have been ?sworn to secrecy? by a friend, telling?no matter how wrong it feels?is better than having to live with a friend’s death.
Depression or other mental health problems can come on suddenly or be present on and off for most of a teen’s life. If you are worried, talk with someone, like your pediatrician, a school counselor, a mental health professional, or a suicide prevention hot line.
The good news is that treatments?medications and therapy?are available. They make a difference.
The risk of teen suicide is 4 to 10 times higher in homes with guns than in homes without. Studies have shown that even in homes where the guns are locked up, teens are much more likely to kill themselves than in homes without guns.
Teenagers who attempt suicide with a gun are more likely to succeed in killing themselves than those who attempt suicide in many other ways.
When teenagers attempt suicide without using a gun, many can recover with therapy. If a gun is used, they will never get that chance.